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The Wedding

This is what I started to write about my weekend in Indiana (14th-18th) & now that I’m finish with my book I’m going to try and finish up.

It has been a very busy weekend.

Friday I went to pick up Sandi & I took her to where I use to get my nails done. They still recognize me. =)~ Sandi has never had her nails done & since I’ve been having them done for the last 8 she wanted me there to help her with it. Since she won’t be keeping them we got her a basic manicure and we then picked out an air brush design for her.

Once we got done there we headed over to Kmart. There are none where I live in Florida, they all closed. =( I really need some more clothes for work and I just can’t find what I like at the other places. I really like the Jaclyn Smith line at Kmart. It took me less then 10 minutes to fine 3 tops, so that was really cool.

Monday……cont….(Don’t know when I’ll get this posted)

I started this at mom & dad’s Sunday night, I’m now at the airport in Indy (found a plug so I can save my battery..lol), Aerosmith’s song “Don’t want to miss a thing” is playing in one of the eateries here & I can’t help but think of seeing Harold soon. =) I really miss him. I know me being gone wasn’t easy for him. What is not going to help is I start back at work tomorrow & I don’t get to spend the time I really want to do with him.

Back to Friday, we finally got back to Sandi’s place Friday night; Ed had taken the kids to the church to get it ready for the wedding. When Sandi checked the caller ID and saw that Ma Weaver had called. When she tried to return the call there was no answer. If there is no answer at that time of the night, then there is a problem. We finally found out that her Aunt Fern (who was up for the family reunion from Arkansas) was in the hospital for chest pains. No one knew anything more then that. So of course it was time to take a trip up to the hospital to find out what was going on.

We took the back roads & Sandi is really out in the country so it took a long while on the back roads to get there. We finally got there & it took a bit to find where she was because she has been known to Sandi as Aunt Fern, no one knew her given name….lol

Aunt Fern was hanging in there. As of Monday afternoon they feel that the problem is with her heart (weren’t sure if it was the lungs) now they need to find out if she can go back to Arkansas for her own doctor or have the medical procedures done here.

Time to get ready for boarding. =)~

25th….Monday…finishing up

Aunt Fern is back in Arkansas & is back under the care of her own doctors.

So that Friday Sandi & I did not get back from the hospital until about 1am, didn’t crash until 2am & was back up at 6am………it was exhausting. We had to get to the American Legion by 9am to set up for the reception and then head to the church by 10am to finish setting up there. After set up at the church we had to head over to the county fair grounds where the family reunion was being held. Luckily for us it was there and not Indiana Dunes cuz there was no way we could’ve made that drive and be back in time for the rehearsal @ 2pm…….and then the wedding was @ 5pm.

It was interesting stopping in at the family reunion. It was large & I don’t even think Sandi knew half the people there. It really had a southern feel for it almost like a revival, but most were up from Arkansas and are active in the Pentecostal Church, so it was fitting. =)

The rehearsal took longer then expected & I had to keep giving the poor boys the eye when there were getting antsy. Nick & Zach were the groomsmen, Matt the ring bearer, Cassie & Jessica the bridesmaids, while their friend Nathan stood for Ed and I stood for Sandi. Rehearsal was good for getting all the bugs out and figuring what we were doing.

After rehearsal we were rushing around trying to get ourselves ready. Sandi’s cousin Lennie did her make up while Cassie did her hair. Lennie was a god send on getting things together for us and getting my hair done.

The ceremony was very pretty and lasted about 30-40 minute. They had a song by Yanni for the entrance of the bridesmaids & groomsmen and an Enya song for Sandi’s entrance. I was very proud of the boys; they did very well on standing still and behaving. Mom, Dad & the kids even made it. =)

The reception was fun and had lots of food. I was able to see members of Sandi’s family that I haven’t seen in years, got to talk to Ma Weaver for a bit & even got to see Chrissy, Sandi’s sister who use to work for me at Fannie May.

I didn’t get back to mom & dad’s (about 1-2hrs south) until after midnight. Then I couldn’t go straight to bed, all my clothes were so unorganized in the back of the car from us going through everything for the wedding. So I spent about an hour repacking and organizing everything.

I spent Sunday driving down to see Melinda (about a 2 hr drive). It was good to see her. She has lost a lot of weight. I’m just hoping she gets her head back on straight.

I spent the rest of Sunday just visiting with mom, dad & the kids. It was great to be able to do that. Mom & the kids dropped me off at the airport since dad got called into work.

All in all it was a very busy, but good weekend. I can’t wait to see my family again in Aug. =)

Day Off

It was my 1st real day off of work since I got back from Indiana. We got the house cleaned and basically just spent the rest of the day chilling and enjoying our selves in the pool.

When we weren’t in the pool we were on the porch reading, until Harold spotted a few black widows. One was fine, he sprayed it with poison but when he found a few more…..the poison got everywhere so we went inside after that.

Pic of Black Widow

Harold had started on the latest Harry Potter, so I had only been able to read the 1st 100 pages…..so I tried to read other things, but I was on my Potter kick. So I went digging in the garage and found book 5 and did some rereading of that. Good thing he finished book 6…….a few characters in book 5 were pissing me off (I really get into my books………..lol).

I just wanted to stop in and give you a quick update cause I’m really itching to get back to my book. I will have it done tomorrow (my other day off for the week). I know I haven’t done much on keeping up…..but I’m taking some time to be selfish. =)

Just Stopping In

Just stopping in to say hi. I’ve been working 11-12 hr days since I got back. We have some very important deadlines to make this week & more for next week. Doesn’t help that we are losing one of our managers. =(

I’m so looking forward to having Sunday & Monday off. Then I could get my emails done & get a true blog entry about my weekend back at my folks & the wedding, spend time in the pool with Harold & just chill.

Harold didn’t sleep very well when I was gone & then he got a sinus infection so he hadn’t sleep very well until last night. I haven’t sleep since my mind wouldn’t shut off on work, but now that our main deadline has been meet I can crash good tonight.

We did take a few hours the last few days to finally watch “Ray” (brought when it came out)……I cried. It was a great movie. Jamie Foxx really did earn that oscar. Now I need to get that sound track…….and I still want “Shrek 2” sound track. The next movie to watch is “Hotel Rwanda”, that one I’ve been putting off since I know it is going to effect me emotionally, even though I really want to see it.

I’m heading to bed, been up since just before 5am & my head is starting to spin.

Back Home

It was great to see Harold when I finally got past security at the airport. He had a cute stuffed white tiger for me…..grin…I have it on one of our computer towers watching me.

We stopped for a quick dinner & when we got home jumped into the pool for a little while just to spend some time together.

I did get all unpacked and got myself set up for going to work…….in fact, I stayed up a little too late & didn’t get all the sleep that I should have. But that is okay, makes it easier for me around the house on the things I need to get done.

I spent the day at work, so it is back to the grind. =)

I’m going to attempt to do a few emails & I have started on a journal entry about my trip, but it will take a day or two. =)

Here is a link to a few of the pics I took : Mom & Dad’s

I’m Here

I’m here at mom & dad’s.

I had a normal flight up. It was different for me to leave Harold behind at the security line, but he went with me as far as he could. He had me text message him when I was boarded and when I landed. So I sent him a pic of me on the plane and one of dad when I landed. Dad meet me in the airport.

I totally forgot the king George (Bush) was speaking in Indy. 🙁 I got to see a glimpse of Air Force One and I tried to take a pic, don’t know how well it came out yet….but that was the only cool part. We then got stuck waiting in traffic for a half hour. According to dad (he once helped to guard Air Force One & Two during the Clinton years) that they stop traffic for about 30-60 minutes before and after take off so they can move him.

Sandi wasn’t able to come down, still has so much to do for the wedding. I’ll be taking off with dad’s car tomorrow to head on up & I’ll be coming back down Saturday afterwards.

Then Sunday, off to see Melinda.

Today I spent time visiting with mom, dad & the kids. Took pics of the place to see the different changes. I even jumped a few times on the trampoline (sp)…….lol

Now I need to iron my skirt. =)